for the girl who’s second best to none
When I was a little girl, my grandma and pop-pop, (self-proclaimed) excellent dancers, taught me all the moves to “One” from A Chorus Line.
Dancing around her living room in my pink panther pajamas, my sister as my reluctant dance partner, we practiced each night one summer week while my parents were away.
“(Step together, step together…) One… singular sensation…”
We also did cross stitch, ran in the backyard under the sprinkler, and played in a basement that cried out for us – kid visitors at last to slide on the black and white linoleum, investigate all the cupboards. But it’s the dancing I remember most.
“Every little step she takes (lead with the hip, lift of the hat)”
Saturday, A Chorus Line was in town and Grandma had a great idea. Wouldn’t my honey love to go with her and I for his birthday??? He could bring a friend, too! Sure, we laughed, pondering the luck of my sweetie, getting to drive Grandma and I to A Chorus Line; maybe he could bring his imaginary gay boyfriend, Ernesto. Secretly I was a little sad she thought of it first as I mulled the idea as soon as I saw it was out.
“One, thrilling combination, every move that she makes, she’s a special girl…”
So one clear crisp morning, round about 11 (it’s a long ride to the world of leisure,) we were off. Grandma was a flutter, at the door when we pulled up, bouncing out, a spring in her step.
On the way there, down 16th street, she pointed out her old haunts, the places where she’d been a little girl dreaming of New York and the theatre, and a young woman, dreaming of dances and my grandfather.
“One smile and suddenly nobody else will do…. you know you’ll never be lonely with you know … whoooooo…. ONE…”
Several hours later we were there and grandma leapt from the car to the foyer examining t-shirts and CDs. “Would you like one?” she asked my love. “Oh no, no. you’ve done enough.” he chuckled.
We got to our seats and she was bouncing, exploding with joy, detailing past shows, her longtime friend who worked in the theatre, her trips to New York. I asked her for her alltime favorite musical and she was pensive. “Oklahoma,” she said, “for sentimental reasons.” My grandfather had scored them tickets on their honeymoon, citing his war bride’s (true) long wish to see the show before he shipped out (not quite right but … poetic license.)
The curtain came up, the music started. (a five six seven eight….doo doo do doo do doo doo do do ) I knew every word to every song finding I had to restrain myself my singing too loud or tapping my foot too hard. Nothing could stop the smile spreading across my face, however, as I watched grandma bouncing and singing, and moving literally to the edge of her seat.
“Moment in her presence and you can forget the rest, for the girl is second best to none…. son…..”
When they got to One, she leaned over to my honey, stage whispering… “now this is where they really steal the show!”
And they did. But I had trouble taking my eyes off grandma as my own heart filled with melody and crescendo and tears, watching her well with joy.
“Oooh, sigh, give her your attention, do … I … really have to mention….”
We began the long journey home, teary eyed and after many hugs, walking past the stage door and the families taking pictures. Grandma said to me “you did really good.” She meant in love, but I looked around and thought, yeah, I did, over all.
“She’s the …. ONE”
Later she called and said it was one of the best days of her life.
Me too, I thought. Me, too.
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Aftercancer said,
Wrote on March 24, 2009 @ 5:53 pm
Such a nice tribute. I think all of us of a “certain age” used to know and deep, deep down still do know those steps. Thanks for the memory.
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Mom said,
Wrote on March 24, 2009 @ 8:02 pm
Sniff! A beautiful tribute to you, too.
Rachel said,
Wrote on March 24, 2009 @ 8:11 pm
Sniff x2! You should show this to gma. Good job!
washwords said,
Wrote on March 24, 2009 @ 8:57 pm
WW says:
@Aftercancer: thanks for the visit and the compliment. I don’t think I’m of a certain age and I sure remember it. Hmm, maybe I AM of a certain age.
@Mom: awww thanks mom! I leave the sharing of stories to you!
@Rachel: aww megas! are you two boo hooing over there? i figured you were busy playing with bucket!
Cyndy said,
Wrote on March 24, 2009 @ 10:51 pm
That’s so cool that your grandparents taught you all those steps. And that she still loves that show after all these years. And that you gave her such joy by taking her to see it again.
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WW says: Cyndy: Isn’t it? Gotta love Grandmas. It also makes me think about the future and one day – 20, 30 years from now, my niece taking ol’ Aunt Washwords to whatever special thing she might remember from the wonderful memories I’m looking forward to sharing with her! Thanks for visiting! So glad to see ya around her more often and loveee your blog, too. especially its name!
tstockley said,
Wrote on March 27, 2009 @ 11:28 am
That’s so sweet. Which grandmother was this?
WW says: gma fran – mom’s mom. heh. can’t you picture it? flaming red hair and all! you know, next to grandma, you’re who comes to mind next when i think musicals: 76 trombones!!!! hmm, this was meant to be a compliment. 😉
Deidre said,
Wrote on March 30, 2009 @ 5:43 pm
That was beautiful!
My grandmother and greatgrandmother used to take me to show in Boston. And once on a very special trip to New York we saw Guys and Dolls.
Thanks for letting me remember.
WW says: Hello Deidre/Decoy Betty: I’ve loved finding your blog via blogher, which I assume is maybe how you found me, too. Funny how many people seem to be relating to this one. We are all lucky to have such strong, arts-loving matriachs. Can’t be a complete coincidence that among the people reaching out to me re: the post and the memories its spurred are so many talented blogger/writers/artistes! cheers!
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